Life at 25

It was an exam day I saw her. One white fair girl who walked towards me as she looks into her notebook. Her expression appeared to be so tensed,though it was just enough to make me see her continuously. My college life was so much memorable like any other student. I relished every ups and downs it gave me. There are some deplorable things, some good things and few best Things as well. Series Exams were nothing but a time pass for me. I was such an exam day when i met her. That particular day I came little earlier to the exam hall.Not because I was thus keen to write the exam But I dint have anything to do. After looking into my exam hall number, I hit the corridor close to my exam hall. My eyes were looking for someone from my class so that I could learn something from them,But I didn't get anyone. So I was simply drifting around the classroom and a little after I found a seat for myself near to the steps.I saw each person coming through  the stairs.Most of them we...

‘ Happiness is living without expectations.’ - Peter Cajander  ‘Why did you do this to me?..’ ‘If you really liked me, you wouldn't have?’ Sentences I have used many times in my relation with my best friend. Most people would find these sentences very familiar, if they examine their relationships. Expectation: A hazardous concept present in nearly all human relationships. It is basic human nature to project our desires on the people who are closest to us. It is healthy until a point. However, limitless expectation can harm you, hurt you, and even ruin the best relationships. This was the main problem between me and my best friend. I tried to project my thoughts and views onto my friend by assuming that she would think and feel in a way that I would. I forgot the fact that each person is unique. When an individual becomes obsessed with changing their partner to meet their impossible expectations, they become blinded to who their partner really is. Even if the partner attempts to co...